Tomorrow Boyfriend, Youngest Son, and I are going to a pine wood derby about 45 minutes away from home. It's Dad's weekend to have the kids and mom thought she'd fuck Dad over by making him take YS. See, she doesn't know where the mall is that the derby is at. Boyfriend has no clue in hell where it is at and is pissed at the whole "well, if your Daaad can't take you then I guess you'll just have to miss the finals because I made plans and I can't take you" thing his ex-wife pulls.

The only thing the bitch didn't factor in is the girlfriend not only knows the mall, she's stoked because there is a Penny's outlet there and she has a big paycheck that hit her account today.

We are going to have a fun family outing tomorrow and when YS car kicks ass I'll be more than happy to give him my cellphone to call his mother with the good news!

Never ever try to fuck your kid over to spite your ex-whatever. It's the trashiest, nastiest thing in the world. It sets you up for bad karma ... and it just makes your exes new girlfriend/boyfriend look even better in the eyes of your child.

Keep your fingers crossed that YS does well. No matter what happens, it's his day with his dad, we're going to make memories that she can't take away, and we are going to have fun!

**edited for one more quick note for exes. Don't try to screw your kid up by giving the wrong information about starting times either for the race. Websites are easy to find and have a plithera of information.

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